bakhita posted an update: 1 year ago
I’m posting my first update…I am happy about this
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bakhita commented on the blog post Love is a losing game! 1 year ago
@mwesh (dropped @ruthmwende I see
your words are very, very true. Regret is such a hollow feeling, its like a black hole sucking everything into itself. Looking back at these past months, I’m glad I took that moment to eb real with myself. Now I have no regrets, I made my peace witht he [...] -
bakhita commented on the blog post Always & Forever 1 year ago
Haha wooohooo viva freedom of expression!
thanks for the encouragement dear 
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bakhita commented on the blog post Sweetest Taboo 1 year ago
Well I keep ducking one and the other I speak to very sparingly. Funny enough the first one (the one I duck) is always calling when I’m busy and the other day when I was on a date. You should have heard the way I MILKED that statement! Just hope it didn’t come across as [...]
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bakhita commented on the blog post Where did my baby go? 1 year ago
Nope
though I keep seeing a karandom stray cat surviving the tough neighborhood streets filled with dogs and the terrible weather and I wonder seriously where the hell my cat potead to kama huyo anasurvive? SMH! -
bakhita commented on the blog post I need a ‘girl’ 1 year ago
No wonder he’s so hard to find because I don’t date my friends
lol the search still on for ‘Bakhita’s Next Top Boyfriend’ don’t worry, I’ll keep you posted! -
bakhita commented on the blog post Loving you is easy ‘cause you’re beautiful 1 year ago
Thanks for reading and commenting
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bakhita commented on the blog post A Beautiful Mess 1 year ago
haha well thank God i’m not alone
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bakhita wrote a new blog post: Loving you is easy ‘cause you’re beautiful 1 year ago
Is that true? Do we only love the beautiful? Lord that is such a harsh thing to think about but really I think in some ways I do. *cringe* It feels horrible admitting that attractiveness has a considerable ranking on my totem pole of assessment-of-people-I’d-like-to-date. But does it make it better that in general I don’t care about how people [...] -
bakhita wrote a new blog post: A Beautiful Mess 1 year ago
The hardest thing for an incurable romantic to do is to manage expectations. Man, the number of times my achy-breaky heart has been smashed to smithereens by the eventual outcome of certain situations are too many to count. See, a romantic creates fanciful castles in the sky built from the ground up by twisted statements and [...] -
bakhita commented on the blog post Being an apple 1 year, 1 month ago
We all have such tough relationships with our bodies. Take heart, tuko wengi one day you are on top of the world, next day the world is on top of you or you suspect that it is hiding in your belly
I’d encourage you to remember the good days when the bad ones come [...] -
bakhita commented on the blog post Of Minumum Wage Love 1 year, 1 month ago
Hehehehe! Made my afternoon! I can totally relate (even the Prince Williams bit!) It baffles me why ‘good’ guys, close to our age and with similar interests cannot pluck up the courage to say hallo! I met a persistent one the other day, man he could NOT take hint, thankfully I caught sight of a [...]
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bakhita wrote a new blog post: I need a ‘girl’ 1 year, 1 month ago
I don’t believe in the theory about how women date/marry/seek out men who resemble their fathers. In some ways I think it’s a little too incestuous/ Oedipus complex for me! It’s not as if I don’t have a fantastic father to model my future mate(s) on, it’s just not a quality I particularly seek out. Not consciously [...] Mia commented on the blog post Kenyan girls are loose?!?!? 1 year, 2 months ago
Africangel, I was still looking forward to hearing from. I may not do what she does BUT I also try not to judge (not always easy thanks to my personality
Anyway Mimijas if ur reading this, please do share. I truly wanna know more (what ur comfortable sharing, that is).-
bakhita wrote a new blog post: Where did my baby go? 1 year, 2 months ago
I used to be a proud pet owner until a few weeks ago. At first it didn’t really register that I had indeed lost the cat. It happened over a very busy weekend full of never ending wageni and chores. So it wasn’t until two days later, when I finally came up for air that it finally [...] -
bakhita commented on the blog post Heaven only knows 1 year, 2 months ago
Hahaha it went ok actually. Lets see how things go then i’ll blog a bit more about this
Mia commented on the blog post Heaven only knows 1 year, 2 months ago
Soooooooo????? How did it go? Spill!
Mia commented on the blog post Big Shock! 1 year, 2 months ago
Hahaha…it’s hard not to laugh. Is this really a true story? This is so much drama! I don’t think you should spend the moolah until you sort things out with ur hubby AND you tell him all about it first coz once you ring that bell, you can’t unring it! Money complicates things and this [...]
Mia commented on the blog post My Furaha Project 1 year, 2 months ago
Congrats! I hope it’s successful. I started a similar project 2 years ago; I called it The Yes Project and have no regrets. Check out “The Yes Trail” page on my blog: http://www.miasaysyes.wordpress.com
Mia wrote a new blog post: Happy long-long-after-Valentines Day 1 year, 2 months ago
We attract who we ARE not who we WANT.
This has been one of my guiding phrases. I love it because it focuses the conundrum of love on you and not ‘those others’. Here’s the thought process: all your partners – former and current – have only one thing in common: you! You are the common [...]
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