Africangel, I was still looking forward to hearing from. I may not do what she does BUT I also try not to judge (not always easy thanks to my personality Anyway Mimijas if ur reading this, please do share. I truly wanna know more (what ur comfortable sharing, that is).

Soooooooo????? How did it go? Spill!

Hahaha…it’s hard not to laugh. Is this really a true story? This is so much drama! I don’t think you should spend the moolah until you sort things out with ur hubby AND you tell him all about it first coz once you ring that bell, you can’t unring it! Money complicates things and this [...]

Congrats! I hope it’s successful. I started a similar project 2 years ago; I called it The Yes Project and have no regrets. Check out “The Yes Trail” page on my blog: http://www.miasaysyes.wordpress.com

mimijas thanks for visiting and pole for the late reply. That being said, I literally don’t know how to respond to your comment. It’s your life so you don’t owe me an explanation but perhaps you could give us one anyway. We won’t know if we don’t ask and I’d definitely like to hear your [...]

Thank you Africangel. I read (and hear) your frustration loud and clear! We need help in the worst way. I hope that ICC and Ocampo help us. It sounds like the US isn’t going to support their cause, which seems to be our one hope since without their vote, Kenya will have to go to [...]

Wow Ruth, this is way more serious than I thought if she’s after your marriage. Can’t wait, and apparently neither can Africangel, who totally cracked me up! See what you’re doing to her? Ati dreams. Africangel you gave me a much needed chuckle. Tell us about Sandra in your dream

On your case for what? Gosh, people have guts, and not in a good way! Sheeesh…what is *wrong* with this woman?

Oh Naomie…I colored my hair! I look different and have no regrets. Talk about pushing my boundaries with copper/blonde hair! So not me, yet so me

Shiro….no need to be scared although this fear indicates that you’re healthy. You’ll be just fine; use common sense and balance that with taking a chance (I had an impromptu camel ride on my solo vacay but never once left my drink unattended. Get my drift?) Totally rooting for you! Keep us posted.

Thanks Naomie. I mean, things have just gotten (more) out of hand lately. We might as well not bother with it if it’s gonna be done here in Kenya because I don’t believe it will be fair and/or just.

Good for you! One of the cool things about being a woman is that we keep evolving, and are allowed (by society) to celebrate those evolutions. Do you, be you and watch life unfold with people who value YOU exactly as you are and will be. Good luck!

Oh, and make copies of that check, just in case….you need proof

You’re treading too close to the line. Your initial silence is understandable but your continued silence is not. You keep saying Michelle is your friend. Really? Take that cheque and Michelle out to lunch and end this nonsense.

I was with you until you mentioned Daisy’s replacement. You might as well walk around wearing a big huge neon sign around your neck boldly declaring “I have NO business being in a relationship or searching for one.” After reading this I agree with your friends: Re-lax and take time off from relationships. There’s a [...]

Hi Mzungu, welcome to Mia’s Diary. I see it all the time; men ‘check out’ so women pick up the slack and then they can never ever go back to the kind of man that checked out in the first place. Obviously, not all men are like that so this is a generalization. I think [...]

If the shoe was on the other foot, what would you like your friend to do? IMO, if you’ve been friends for this long then your loyalty lies with your friend and not with her husband, ur hubby or their marriage and certainly not with the other woman. I think you *should* tell your friend; [...]