• ThumbnailGoing into business is sometimes a daunting project, even at the best of times. You are leaving all that’s familiar…and laid back – the monthly pay check, hours spent making decisions (whose overall effect seemed like somebody else’s business and not yours, in case of any losses), stopping in on friends for that Marketing pitch, lazy [...]

  • Hey Ms. Drama, glad about the kindred spirit!!! There’s always HOPE for love :) Ingenuous, how he even came up with this simple concept. Wishing them well…

  • ThumbnailI recently watched a Wedding proposal on YouTube that took my breath away, simply for the sheer creativity… this guy decides to actually hire a movie theatre hall to air the ‘movie’ (home-made of course) that he’s shot, proposing to his girlfriend. The thing is, she is actually been taken to that precise movie theatre to watch…a regular movie. [...]

  • I think we all should take responsibility for the society turning out as it is… lumping it all on one gender is rather drastic, I dare say. What about some of our mothers who either maligned or belittled those very fathers, so that they really felt devalued? Granted, you can choose to rise above social [...]

  • Mwesh, glad to have you join the conversation. Its a scene that plays out ever so often in many facets of life…we just need to be shown what and how to manage these aspects of life…

  • Hey rouze, I hear you…good to see both sides of the coin. Yet, I realise though that the girl-child has received lots more attention over time, yet the menfolk are lapsing behind in social skills and development because we feel they should just know what’s required of them. Women have always had a head start [...]

  • ThumbnailIt’s horrifying how families are under attack… daily!! Its now out there for all to partake of… The headlines scream of yet another brutal battering…and this time, neither the high and mighty nor the lowly are spared. The base actions of anger expressed are well evident; high level delegate batters wife, man kills family then strangles himself, [...]

  • cyiengi commented on the blog post Integrity 11 months, 4 weeks ago

    Interesting observation Mwende… That movie I must watch…”the invention of lying”? mhhh…. I believe when people know what to get from you it makes it easier relating with you. The goalposts dont keep shifting…quicksand is a challenging place to try and maintain any stability. Integrity makes our word solid..granted, we dont always keep it…[Read more]

  • Hi Mwende, Its amazing how human emotion can play such havoc on relationships… Am glad about your feedback. Many times we just need the tools or someone believing in us enough for us to open up to the truth of what’s really going on beneath the surface. Life is never a straight path; the curve [...]

  • Lawrence, you are crazy…and funny too! :-) Hilarious, in fact! Is this the ‘fuddle-duddle’ we get men into, while our minds are running I the opposite direction? Quite an eye opener…A Great piece.

  • ThumbnailYou are unique – your affections, tastes, appetites, execution style etc. God built you with love and with particular care. You are delicate, sensitive, absorbent . You are spirit, soul and body. You are a receptor – very open to external stimuli; a flower (sensitive intuitive expressive reflective) therefore guard your space and environments very…[Read more]

  • Thumbnail1. THE WOMAN IS AN “EMOTIONAL FEELER” She assesses verbal and non verbal communication MENTALLY AND EMOTIONALLY AT THE SAME TIME . The man uses these functions separately. She processes facts and feelings simultaneously influencing her perspective on the world around her plus what’s communicated to her. A woman does not need to apologize for her…[Read more]

  • How we need to make an effort to understand each others point of view…can you imagine just how pained the other must feel in such a situation?

  • ThumbnailMusing between how to end it or make it work…surely things cannot be this hard? Not if two people are really truly interested in sorting out the important issues? What else could he do after he realized that he couldn’t love her the way she wanted to be loved? At least not now…he was hurting too [...]

  • Christine Minjire wrote a new blog post: Integrity 2 years ago

    ThumbnailMuch ado about nothing, you say? Well if Integrity isn’t that big a deal in society why do we vilify those caught cheating or playing the field? It seems to be the latest fad in the media whenever one’s word is doubted or someones hand is caught in the cookie jar… Integrity will speak a lot [...]