Comments on: Ask Lily: Lesbianism

By: Darlene

Darlene — Fri, 03 Sep 2010 01:09:05 +0000

Jan! Geez! U nt a lesbian u trying 2 b 1. So thnk twice gal

By: rikki

rikki — Mon, 15 Mar 2010 09:43:48 +0000

wewe shida zako have nothing to do with your father. lesbians are born, not made. to me it sounds like you got into the whole lesbo thing just to get dudes (we looooove lesbians). grow up.

By: kiki

kiki — Sun, 21 Feb 2010 14:56:48 +0000

hi gal its all good but you know what that isnt the way.i too watched my dad hit my mum but u got to strong gal and besides that i have gotten my heart broken a zillion times but i havent changed my sexuality.be strong my dear itl be good in due time.Blessins are only delayed not denied,youl get one fine man

By: Lyreb

Lyreb — Tue, 02 Feb 2010 14:11:16 +0000

Jan,
This sounds like a re-run of some old TYRA episode. From your comment it is already evident you know exactly the cause of your problems. I suggest you seek help with dealing with the emotional abuse you have gone through in your life first. Turning into Lesbianism is not a solution it just an escapist tactic.
So what if your lesbian partner beats you, cheats on you and emotionally blackmails you….What then?
Sort yourself out and everything else will follow…..by the way we attract who we are so if you go walking around acting like a victim you will definitely continue to attract abusers…be strong Woman!!!!!!!!!!!!!

By: Lawrence

Lawrence — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 18:25:35 +0000

Someone once said that we are all manufacturers. Making good, making trouble, or making excuses. As much as your dad’s misdemeanor might have affected your childhood, you are now an adult and need to take responsibility for your actions Jan. And Hey, everyone has had their share of bad relationships, you are not the first. You learn, get back on your feet and be the better person you obviously want to be. Last but not least, Pray.

By: rossemie

rossemie — Thu, 28 Jan 2010 12:57:23 +0000

Dont involve your gud self in such a mess coz there are gud guys out there who will make you happy gal, the past has got nothing to do with your future give it a try dear

By: margy

margy — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 17:55:36 +0000

whats wrong with that ellen degeneres is a lesbian yet she is a great t.v host………….its normal it will be great since you will be able to speak for the others and besides this is the 21st centuart[is that the spelling] and deal with is……….

By: munene

munene — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 12:13:57 +0000

hey Jan, i can relate to what you are going through. But this is the picture of the lesbian in kenya or nairobi…when things are not working well or ur failing in ur life then the easiest way is to become a lesbian. then ur comments will be ..oh i cant get anything good because i am a lesbian!!! so row up, pick urself up and decide where u wanna be..

By: Mbũrũ Kamau

Mbũrũ Kamau — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 08:45:18 +0000

Jan,
This ‘celebrity’ nonsense is not doing any good to you.
How can you relate your father’s behaviour to your demeaning thoughts of being a lesbian?
Are you in need of companion or escaping from your father’s alleged mistreatment of your mum?
If you were ‘falling in love’ with a male ‘celebrity’, I would have said you are a gold-digger.
Stop generalizing things here – not all males are animals as you want to put it.
Ask yourself whether you are indeed suffering a psychological problem or not.
And remember, sex is for two purposes — Procreation and Leisure, not one but both. So tell us whether lesbianism satisfies both!

By: diana

diana — Tue, 26 Jan 2010 06:35:44 +0000

What does your celebrity status have to do with anything?You are either a dyke or you’re not,period!